For a lot of men, “I feel fine” has become a sexual health strategy. No burning, no discharge, no weird bumps? Then everything must be okay…right? Not quite. When it comes to sexually transmitted infections (STIs), especially for men who are sexually active with multiple partners or in non‑monogamous relationships, “no symptoms” does not mean “no infection.” Many of the most common STIs in men are frequently asymptomatic — you can have them, pass them on, and never know unt

In the rush of daily life, it’s easy to take our partners for granted. Whether you’re in a monogamous relationship, exploring polyamory, or embracing the swinging lifestyle, gratitude is the secret ingredient that transforms good connections into extraordinary ones. Let’s explore how appreciation strengthens bonds, enhances intimacy, and creates lasting happiness—all while keeping safety and respect at the forefront. Why Gratitude Matters in Relationships Gratitude isn’t just

Understanding Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis and Complete Sexual Health Protection Pre-exposure prophylaxis, or PrEP, has revolutionized HIV prevention. When taken as prescribed, PrEP is up to 99% effective at preventing HIV transmission through sex and significantly reduces risk through injection drug use. It's a powerful tool—but it's not a complete shield. What PrEP Does PrEP is a daily medication (or on-demand dosing in some cases) specifically designed to prevent HIV infection

Let's talk about something that affects millions of sexually active people every year, yet remains shrouded in unnecessary shame: STI testing and contracting an STI. Here's the truth that needs to be said louder: Getting tested for STIs is responsible. Contracting an STI is common. And neither makes you dirty, careless, or less worthy of love and pleasure. The Stigma Is the Real Problem—Not the Test Somewhere along the way, we collectively decided that STI testing was somethi

Today, we bring in the 2nd part of Ethics in disclosure. In our previous post, we explored the fundamental principles of ethical...

Understanding the Foundation of Ethical Disclosure in Intimate Relationships In the realm of intimate relationships, few topics are as complex and emotionally charged as disclosure. Whether you're navigating traditional monogamy, exploring polyamory, or participating in the swinging lifestyle, the question remains: what do you truly owe your partners when it comes to sharing personal information? The answer isn't as straightforward as you might think. The Foundation: Consent

When you're navigating multiple romantic or sexual relationships, open communication about sexual health isn't just important—it's essential. Yet many people in polyamorous relationships struggle with when and how to bring up STI testing, sharing results, and maintaining transparency across their network of partners. The good news? With the right approach and tools, these conversations can become natural, trust-building moments rather than awkward obstacles. Breaking the Ice:

Let's get real about club environments. The music's pumping, the energy is high, and you've just locked eyes with someone across the room. How do you smoothly transition from "hey sexy" to "let's talk test results" when you can barely hear each other over the bass? The Club Reality Check Clubs present unique challenges: - It's loud AF (good luck having a detailed conversation) - Everyone's in party mode (not exactly "serious health discussion" vibes) - Alcohol is flowing (whi

Can we have a real talk for a minute? I've been thinking about how we navigate health conversations in our community, and honestly, we need to get better at this. Like, way better. The Awkward Truth Picture this: You're at a party, vibing with someone new, the chemistry is off the charts, their kiss gets you all excited, and then... that moment hits. You know the one. The one where you know you want to take this further. The "so, when were you last tested?" conversation. Sudd

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It's a common misconception: "My partner and I are both 'clean,' so why bother with STI testing?" The truth is, the concept of being "clean" in the context of sexual health can be misleading and, frankly, dangerous. Relying on assumptions about a partner's sexual history or their apparent lack of symptoms can leave you vulnerable to serious health consequences. Regular STI testing is a fundamental aspect of responsible sexual health for everyone, regardless of perceived risk.

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